Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? . . . No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
~Romans 8:35, 38-39


Friday, November 30, 2007

Carissa's Adoption Day!!

Today we finalized Carissa's adoption. Here are some pics from court.

The whole gang who came for the hearing.


Kalie and Carissa.

Here are several pics from lunch at Brick Street Cafe for Carissa's adoption party.


Josiah and his girl, Ellie.

Bops with a wiped out Carissa.Caleb and Ethan.


Rosie and Ellie.


Minnie and Carissa.


Grammy and Bops.


Mark and Meredith (the kids' second parents)



Grammy, Minnie, Carissa, and me



Thanksgiving (posted a little late)

Here are all of us at the table.

Uncle Will with Josiah and Caleb.

Carissa eating her first Thanksgiving meal (rice cereal - yum!)

Josiah with Carissa.

Here's a movie of Carissa eating.






Here is a video of Caleb singing "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star".





Here is Josiah singing "Jesus Loves Me".


Friday, November 16, 2007

Video of Josiah's Thanksgiving Program

Friends and Thanksgiving Program

This morning Caleb got together with his two best friends, Ethan and Sam.




Also here is a pic of Ellie with Carissa.


Then Josiah had his Thanksgiving program and then lunch.


Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Max Lucado on Adoption

I was recently emailed this excerpt from Max Lucado's book, The Great House of God, from some friends in our adoption group.


God's Mission: Adoption
by Max Lucado

When we come to Christ, God not only forgives us, he also adopts us. Through a dramatic series of events, we go from condemned orphans with no hope to adopted children with no fear. Here is how it happens. You come before the judgment seat of God full of rebellion and mistakes. Because of his justice he cannot dismiss your sin, but because of his love he cannot dismiss you. So, in an act which stunned the heavens, he punished himself on the cross for your sins. God's justice and love are equally honored. And you, God's creation, are forgiven. But the story doesn't end with God's forgiveness.

For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out "Abba! Father!" The Spirit himself bears witness with our Spirit that we are children of God (Rom. 8:15--16 NASB).

But when the fullness of time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the Law, in order that He might redeem those who were under the Law, that we might receive the adoption as sons (Gal. 4:4--5 NASB).

It would be enough if God just cleansed your name, but he does more. He gives you his name. It would be enough if God just set you free, but he does more. He takes you home. He takes you home to the Great House of God.

Adoptive parents understand this more than anyone. I certainly don't mean to offend any biological parents--I'm one myself. We biological parents know well the earnest longing to have a child. But in many cases our cribs were filled easily. We decided to have a child and a child came. In fact, sometimes the child came with no decision. I've heard of unplanned pregnancies, but I've never heard of an unplanned adoption.

That's why adoptive parents understand God's passion to adopt us. They know what it means to feel an empty space inside. They know what it means to hunt, to set out on a mission, and take responsibility for a child with a spotted past and a dubious future. If anybody understands God's ardor for his children, it's someone who has rescued an orphan from despair, for that is what God has done for us.

God has adopted you. God sought you, found you, signed the papers and took you home.


From The Great House of God Copyright (W Publishing Group, 1997) Max Lucado

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Recently read books

I've Got a Home in Glory Land: A Lost Tale of the Underground Railroad by Karolyn Smardz Frost

Red Mutiny: Eleven Fateful Days on the Battleship Potemkin by Neal Bascomb

When She Was White: The True Story of a Family Divided by Race by Judith Stone

The Pentagon: A History by Steve Vogel

Valley of Dry Bones by Pastor Lance

I recently read a series of posts from a pastor of a black church in Philadelphia. Pastor Lance talks about what he believes is the only hope for blacks from "moribund communities and . . . the sad cycle of despair, frustration, anger, violence, grief and more despair. " He combats the word of faith theology in the black community. It is an excellent read.

Valley of Dry Bones

Valley of Dry Bones - Blackness Rising

Valley of Dry Bones - Blackness the Resurrection

Monday, November 12, 2007

“Abba! Father!” and transracial adoption article by Dan Cruver

Here is an excellent article by Dan Cruver at Carolina Hope Adoption.

Friday, November 9, 2007

Adoption Article

Here is an adoption article I ran across on someone else's blog.

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Mitt Romney in Greenville

Today we got a chance to meet Mitt Romney at the office of our adoption lawyer, Raymond W. Godwin. Romney wanted to talk with some adoptive families about current adoption issues and what needs to be done on a national level for adoption. We were one of the families asked to meet with him. Romney also held a press conference outside after talking with the families. Here is an article from the Greenville news about Romney's visit. Here is the photo gallery with some photos of us.

Here is the video from FoxNews. Chris's head and shoulder are on the left hand side.